The idea behind this one seems pretty beautiful: don’t ever take your loved ones for granted and always know what they mean for you. But there’s a darker side to this as well. Some people are so insecure about themselves that they feel like they’re not worthy of such a beautiful relationship. This insecurity can lead to utter jealousy but also to a great dependency, a clinging on to the one thing that matters most (or so they think). And then the insecure person will do everything to keep their partner happy which unfortunately is unsustainable and will keep the insecure person restless all the while. Maybe a good illustration of why clinging onto things isn’t a viable solution.

Love yourself first before you love someone else.